When it comes to young children, there seems to be no limit to the amount of rough and tumble raucous play they have the energy for each day. From sun up (and sometimes earlier!) to sun down, they are just go, go, go ...
Which can make getting them quiet and ready for bed super-challenging. Introducing calming play ideas in the lead up to bedtime is one of the best ways to change the soundtrack of their play from ‘let’s party!’ to ‘chill out sessions.’
1. Pull out the calming playdough
All toddlers love to squish and mould playdough, which in itself is a relaxing activity, but add a dash of lavender oil to their favourite pastime and they’ll also enjoy it’s calming aroma. Here’s the recipe from Living Well Mom.
2. Create a snugly reading nook
Simply toss a few cushions on the floor of a ‘tent’ made out of an old sheet (we do this by throwing one over a couple of chairs) to create a snugly reading haven. Give your little ones a torch if it’s dark and a basket of books for them to flip through.
3. Have a play picnic
This one couldn’t be easier. Spread out a picnic rug on the floor and place a puzzle, building blocks or other quiet construction toys in the middle. For some reason, my boys are more likely to sit and focus on an activity when there’s a designated play spot.
4. Make zen glitter salt
Simply add some glitter, food colouring and calming lavender essential oil to a zip-lock bag of salt to make pretty glitter salt (from The Imagination Tree). Then, pour it into a tray with some sand toys and your toddler will have a magical zen garden to explore.
5. Put on some relaxing music
My sons’ kindy always play spa-like music when I drop them off. It’s relaxing and even I walk away feeling calmer after the morning daycare rush. Change your household atmosphere by flicking on some calming music.
6. Light a candle
There is something mesmerising and hypnotic about looking at a flame. Light some candles for your child (out of their reach, of course!) and watch as the flame stills and captivates them.
7. Make a leaf collage
All you need is some leaves gathered from the garden and glue to create this sweet nature picture (from The Imagination Tree). The simple task of walking outside to gather the leaves and then gluing and pressing them onto paper is beautifully unwinding.
8. Colour in together
Focusing on staying within the lines and bringing a picture to life with colour is wonderfully calming – for little kids and adults alike. Grab yourself one of the many grown up colouring books in the shops these days and rediscover this soothing activity with your child.
9. Make pom poms
All you need is an old toilet roll and a ball of wool to make a pom pom (check out this how-to from The Craft Train). Cute, colourful and best off all, pom-pom making is relaxing fun.
10. Run a relaxation bath
A lovely soak in the tub is relaxing for anyone. Rather than rush your kids through this part of the day though, try using it as a way to wind them down. Pour in some bubble bath with a splash of essential oils like lavender, chamomile or cedar wood and encourage them to relax in the warm water. Leave washing their hair for another night if this brings on the bath time battles.
11. Create some sensory magic
Plastic bottles filled with water and glitter and other things are mesmerising to little ones. As they turn them upside down and watch the sparkles float about, they will also start to mellow. Check out the easy how-to instructions to make your own from Rhythms of Play.
This article was originally published on Babyology.
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